Sunday 25/04

Thought I wanted to be in a relationship. But I'm also glad being single. Go figure..... Bipolar disorder anyone?

Enneagram and relationships:

"Fours long for an ideal mate or partner. They will often project this role onto new acquaintances, idealizing them and fantasizing about the wonderful life they will have together. Unfortunately, as Fours get to know the person better, they become disenchanted, realizing that the other is not the "good parent" who will rescue them from all their problems. He or she is just another human being with flaws and shortcomings. The other’s "blemishes" soon become the focus of the Four’s attention, and they lose interest in the person. Before long they are back to their search and fantasizing again, but generally with less hope of finding the person "of their dreams.""

Yes, guilt as charged.....

Like Groucho Marx said: "PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT PEOPLE LIKE ME AS A MEMBER". Move on to a bigger challenge, eh? Not very sustainable.....