18/05/2010

I'm quite often a lonely guy. I have to take responsibility for that, as I prefer my own company to at least 95% of people. I hate small talk, and inane questions such as "how are you?" from someone I don't know. I will judge you within a few minutes, and that judgement will prevail in nearly all cases.

I don't know whether that's a bad thing. It would be great if I could enjoy more people's company (in the same way that it'd be great if I liked broccoli - apparently it's good for you...) But I just don't. Most people bore me, and I wouldn't miss them if they disappeared. Harsh, maybe, but true. Life is too short to spend with boring people. So for anyone spending time with me, you've obviously passed the test :)

I think that most good things get you into trouble to begin with - until you learn it's not trouble, it's just the way things are. So my honesty always gets me into trouble, and keeps spoiling relationships ("does my bum look big in this?" "erm, yeah, massive...").
But what I (and you) see as honesty is what other people see as arrogance and insensitivity. The next topic I will tackle here will be Asperger's syndrome, I've been told more than once I show signs of this.... Watch this space :)

Whoops, down to 80 FB mateys..... Just deleted half my friends, but I'm just practising what I preach. If I'm not interested in them, and they're not interested in me, why be friends? Even if it's only online?